PLOT- Writer and creator of several award-winning television shows (Grey's Anatomy, Scandal), Shonda Rhimes, shares how she spent a year saying yes to experiences that were outside of her comfort zone and how this quest changed her life.
LIKE- I have a confession: I've never seen a single episode of any of Shonda Rhimes' hit shows. I'm well aware of who is she is, because I don't live under a rock. Rhimes is one of the most successful show-runners on television. So, if I'm not a fan of her shows, why would I pick up her book? Year of Yes kept popping up on must-read lists and catching my eye in the book store. It's a New York Times Bestseller and when I saw a copy on the remainders table, I grabbed it. It has been on my shelf for awhile and with the new year, it seemed like the type of book that could be inspiring.
It is inspiring! Rhimes talks about her insecurities and introverted nature, all of which caused her to turn down invitations and shy away from the lime light ( which is hard to do when you're one of the most well-regarded women in Hollywood). During Thanksgiving 2013, Rhimes' sister, Delorse, makes the comment that Rhimes never says yes to anything. Rhimes took this comment to heart and made the active choice to say yes in 2014, particularly to things that forced her outside of her comfort zone.
Among other things, she says yes to giving a commencement speech at her alma matter, Dartmouth. She says yes to appearing on Jimmy Kimmel Live. She gives herself permissions to cut out toxic friendships and to focus on her health. Through all of this, she discovers that she actually enjoys the previously terrifying experiences,and is becoming a happier person.
Rhimes is intelligent, funny, and down-to-earth. She's really likable and relatable. On a personal level, I connected with her childhood dreams of being a writer and how she would escape to the pantry to create stories or read. I was that kid too Shonda!
I don't remember the exact quote, but I love a comment that Rhimes makes about her shows, how she wants to see people like herself on television, but also people who are different from her. She wants diversity in all forms.
DISLIKE- Nothing. Well, one thing...I now feel compelled to start watching Rhimes' shows. How can I possibly take on a decade worth of Grey's Anatomy? Where to start? Argh!
RECOMMEND- Say yes to Year of Yes. If you tend to be a bit of a introvert like me, it's the kick in the pants that will get you to embrace new opportunities.