Thank you to AudibleFM and Simon & Schuster Audio for a copy of Melissa Gilbert’s memoir, Back to the Prairie: A Home Remade, A Life Rediscovered.
Veteran actress Melissa Gilbert’s latest memoir focuses on her most recent decade or so, when she met her third husband, Timothy Busfield, and they decided to leave their life in Hollywood behind, buying a house in the countryside of upstate New York. Although they both still work in the film industry, a majority of their life has taken on a quieter, simpler tone, as they grow their own food and raise chickens on their modest property. This situation had them perfectly set up for isolation and self-sufficiency during the pandemic, but also left them reflective as realized how much they miss connecting with friends and family.
As a kid growing up in the 80’s, I was a huge fan of Little House on the Prairie. When I saw this book on offer, I was curious about Gilbert’s current life and the meaning of the title. She has indeed, created a modern version of a prairie lifestyle and she seems very content. I most enjoyed her interactions with animals, including a story of a friendly bear visiting their property. Back to the Prairie made me wish that I could raise chickens in my neighborhood, as they seem delightful.
I wouldn’t expect anyone other than Gilbert to provide the narration, but I must confess that I found Gilbert’s voice to be a little grating. It was strange, but the real Gilbert gave-off the Laura Ingall’s vibe, a bit “Pollyanna”. I don’t means this as a total negative, as I can appreciate positivity and enthusiasm, but ilso left me listening in short spurts, alternating with other audio books.
The most lovely take-away from Back to the Prairie was an admiration for Gilbert’s ability to make big life changes. Not only did she move away from her Hollywood lifestyle and attempt new skills, such as many DIY house projects, she let go of many trappings of her previous life. Gilbert and Busfield even had a major sale of their treasure possessions, such as Gilbert’s bonnet from Little House on the Prairie. I’ve recently looked through objects from my childhood and many things, I still could not part with. I think it takes guts to let-go. Gilbert also candidly admits to financial stress and the challenges of aging, especially for a woman who has spent so much time in the spotlight. She has a great perspective on growing older and adapting. is the perfect pick for someone who is facing major life changes and needs a dose of encouragement.